We are shackled by our own comparisons and a result, we are incapable of the true, gut-level, authentic emotion that comes with truly and purely being happy for someone, or truly and purely weeping with another. What can break these chains? What can unshackle us from ourselves for the sake of others? It is only the gospel.

“Rejoice with those who rejoice; weep with those who weep” (Romans 12:15).

This command is part of a long list of exhortations from Paul found in Romans 12. Contextually, all these statements are built around the theme of unity in the body of Christ, that we must all exercise our own spiritual gifts for the sake of the larger church. As the unified people of God, we must not only engage in these giftings, but also live out the corporate life of faith we have in a host of other ways. We must who hospitality; rejoice in hope; outdo one another in showing honor; and we must rejoice with those rejoice and weep with those who weep.

Very practical stuff here. Practical, but difficult, and not just because your personality might not be emotional. It’s difficult to truly rejoice with those who rejoice, and to truly weep with those who weep. A big part of the reason it’s so hard is because way in the back of our hearts, behind all the congratulatory smiles and the consolatory tears there lurks that little thought we’re too ashamed to own up to.

It’s the thought that…

• “I know you’re thrilled you got that promotion but I should be more recognized for my own work.”
• “I know your kids look perfect but I bet you’ve got a pile of dirty laundry in the back room.”
• “I know you think you’ve got problems but you should see what I’m dealing with.”

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